A simple note with a simple yes or no question and the ease of a built in response option:. No need to think of anything but the moment.
Never asking what will I do if she says yes? Will I be able to financially support this endeavor long-term? No, none of those things mattered in the world of primary school dating.
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It was a simple question with an even simpler answer. As we mature our perception of life changes for the good and the badbut either way…in our maturity, it seems that life gets complicated.
Sometimes a little too complicated. Make sure to Relax: Everything good in life happens as a result of time. Or if they will be able to financially support a marriage? Or if their views of parenting and family values match up?
Talk about some serious pressure. Meet some people: I get a lot of questions from singles who are having a hard time meeting eligible bachelors and bachelorettes.
The truth of the matter is that there are so many places to meet people, it just takes a little creativity and an open mind. With those low statistics, it boggles my mind that there are still people cruising around the bar scene in hopes of finding true love. Meet someone where you want to be. If fitness is important to you- the gym, an aerobics class, or run a half-marathon. If the arts is your thing, your local theater, take a photography class, or spend the afternoon at an art museum.
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If service is where your heart is, continue to pursue volunteering and serving others- keeping your heart and eyes open to the prospect of finding true love. Get to know people, build friendships, and learn the give-and-take that comes with all healthy relationships. And by the way, statistics show that one of the top places to meet a mate is a direct result of friends and family!
So tell your friends and family that you are looking to meet someone, and be open to the suggestions of the people that know you best. In getting a first date, I absolutely love match-making.
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I am proud to say that I have successfully matched a few of my closest friends who are happily married now, and am hoping to match many more! Any takers out there?
If the prospect of a 2 hour dinner date is too much for you to handle, try something a little more casual like catching a movie or a sporting event. Make it simple, make it clear, make it easy. But no matter how you ask for the first date, what matters most is that you take the pressure off and just do it.
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